Because, the Homosexual in this construct is a figment of imagination at its worst, and a rarity at the best. It is a convenient lump of mashed bad eggs from the gay community, very useful in convincing the layman of their argument on the part of these ‘family groups ‘.
Okay, so we can ‘t go there. Let ‘s see what else I can dig up against gay people. Let me be rational and go point by point.
1. Gay people are paedophiles. I don ‘t want them molesting my children. Look at NAMBLA! Am I supposed to support such people?
Homosexuality is defined here as mutually consensual sex between two adults ; paedophilia obviously doesn ‘t fit here. Homosexuality does not equal paedophilia. There is no conclusive link between the two, and drawing non-existent connections between the two is as good as saying global warming is causing George Bush to invade Iraq.
Statistics show that majority of child molesters are heterosexual. So, your child is more likely to be molested by a straight man rather than a gay man. Also, among those men who molest small boys, it has to be noted they often do NOT identify as gay.
NAMBLA is a pariah among the gay community, and almost 100% of us are strongly against its agenda. We do not even consider it a gay organisation - we have sisters, brothers, and even children. We do not want them to be in danger from child-molesters. Look at any gay website, and it is unlikely anyone would even list NAMBLA as a gay resource. Sex with minors is illegal, and completely wrong.
2. Granting gay marriage/rights will undermine the heterosexual marriage structure.
Let me imagine - it is the day after the government has legalised gay marriage, and all the wives and husbands wake up, and realise they are gay, and decide to divorce their spouses and marry someone of the same sex. Horrors of horrors! The family unit is gone! The human race will become extinct!
Sorry, Jerry. I simply can’t understand how this is going to happen.
I can understand, though, why family groups are concerned with the decline of the heterosexual family. Divorce rates are increasing, delinquency is turning into criminality, and dysfunctional families are on the rise. I am concerned too ... but homosexuality is not the cause of this. Neither can it aggravate the situation. The reasons for the decline of the family is rooted deep in the failure of the social structure we lived with until now.
If anything, granting family rights to gay people would only help the state of the family, as gay people would have legitimised union to look forward to, raise kids etc.
To prove my point, I’d like to point to Massachusetts, which has legalised gay marriage. It has been a couple of years, and still there is no sign of the heterosexual structure breaking down.
In a nutshell: to beat back the gay community in order to save the heterosexual marriage is akin to building a dam to stop the volcano from erupting.
3. The only stable family structure is that of a man and a woman with children
This is very offensive to all the single mothers and fathers out there, who’ve slaved single-handedly to raise their children to be productive members of the society. If single parents can do it, and there is no lasting damage on the children, what is wrong with two men or two women? After all, two hands are better than one.
And I am strongly contesting the point about the heterosexual unit being the only stable one: the rising divorce rates speak for themselves.
4. Children raised by gay parents turn out gay/depressed/suicidal
I’d like to point to the study here. Clearly, the kids are all right. There is no conclusive evidence that gay parents rear gay kids, unless genetic evidence is taken into account.
Sorry, Jerry... I ran out of points. The rest were just lots of religious pronouncements, which no rational person would even consider as a valid argument.
If anything, I’d like to ask the family groups- why are you making so much of a fuss over homosexuality? Is it the last of your tenets, the last pillar left to knock over? There are certainly more important things to be concerned over than homosexuality. Rising divorce rates, for example. Why aren’t you doing something about that? Where were you when fathers were raping daughters? When fathers were hitting mothers? Instead of doing something about real social issues such as this, you choose to waste your efforts on marginalising the gay community.
Gay people are not against family. We have families of our own too. There is no rational reason why a queer would wake up in the morning and say, “I am going to destroy a family today, just for the fun of it.”
In fact, these family values’ groups have an adverse effect, by perpertuating homophobia, one is only helping widen the rift between millions of queer people on the planet and their immediate families, especially parents. Now THAT is how a family can be destroyed.
Oops, looks like even *I* can’t help you formulate a proper argument. You’re own your own, buddy.